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There's an intriguing feature
story posted as a running article at the Washington Post which bears some review. After all, the entire civilian world seems to be able to weigh in on this story, while other military women are banned from the scrutiny microphone so it seems. 1Lt. Elizabeth Whiteside has a story going on that would raise anybody's eyebrows as the sappy pity machine tries to make here out as yet another PTSD Icon of the year, when in fact, there are indicators along the way that says otherwise. Before getting into the merits of the story, it should be said here that this is one more attempt by the news media to put all the forces of celebrity and scandal on a troop FAILURE instead of a troop success which is exactly what irks a lot of us out here with that whole identity. After 7 years of exemplary service in Iraq, Whiteside just ups and goes ballistic one day, shooting herself in the process and endangering everyone else who was around her at the time. That's the gist of what this story is. Then she gets diagnosed with mental illness after all this and now faces a court martial. Well we all do know the drill about the USMJ now don't we? It comes out in her trial that she "had experienced depression" during her stint at ROTC college well BEFORE going to Iraq. Well now, THERE'S a new and novel concept: somebody who is in the military who is also depressed. Geez, ya think ?? She then volunteers for Iraq with THIS mental baggage on board. All she did for a job there was drive people around within the base compound, but the simple fact that this job required long hours and short, separated times of sleep, then it is here that the rest of us are expected to break out the tissues and buy into this crackup excuse of hers with tears of sympathy. Let me tell ya, in civilian life I had a job once that makes her job pale in comparison and she would consider herself on the good side of lucky to have hers over what I used to have. Nonetheless, here we go again with wild, off the wall PTSD claims when there is actually no TRAUMA involved. I have said this before so many times, how can there be any PTSD if there is NO TRAUMA ?? It seems that the gold standard now for any to scream PTSD is to simply be in an inconvenient place at any time during their military service and then also, not like it there either. I fail to see where any of this meets the science standards of clinical measures. Couldn't it be that she just simply made a rotten choice in her career path and the Army failed to do any real screening on her to make sure she was up to the task? She did, volunteer, after all. In a separate and unrelated profile in the CNN's broadcast of Waging War On the VA, returning Iraq War veteran Tammy Duckworth was profiled in a different way, but here again I noticed some red flags that gives reason to pause. Tammy was a chopper pilot and is now a double leg amputee from an air strike that took her rotors down. She was reluctant to make any on-air claims about PTSD since she is now holding a Boffo job as the state Director of the Illinois Veterans Affairs agency. I'm not sure I would go there either in front of TV cameras if I had a good salary and high profile political appointment job too. So here we have Tammy doing it up and holding this top state job and getting it done and even still flying planes and helicopters to boot, and then we have Sniffle-Butt Lt. Whiteside losing her cookies essentially over nothing at all and then claiming to be the poster girl for Iraq War mental cripples everywhere. Do ya see the problem I have with this ?? Going further into the Tammy Duckworth story, I did spot other red flags that maybe she isn't aware of herself. Here she just gets back from war, barely escaping death itself and now faces a new and challenging life ahead of her with no legs. BUT --- apparently in full denial of all that --- her husband who is also in the military, turns around and answers a deployment call to Iraq. Even though he is given a waiver option to NOT do this because of the service of his wife, the guy up and goes anyway. Talk about a family who doesn't get it!! Here again we see the unfolding chain of bad life choices and then the rest of us are supposed to rally under the PITY Flag when it all goes to Hell in a handbasket for this family, which we all know it well it's just a matter of when and under what circumstances. Now, what is it about Risk and bad life choices that women just do NOT understand ?? This is just like those million dollar beachfront homes on the coast who insist on building too close to the water, and then the rest of us are supposed to break out the kleenix boxes to cry over their lost and demolished properties in the face of a storm that washes it out to sea. Hey Boneheads --- get over yourselves because we aren't going to do this with you anymore!! There is growing evidence as more of these cases gain national attention that women are complete failures in the military and really can't pull it off anyway, and even if they do, they hop from one bad decision to another to another until eventually one of those decisions takes them all the way down to life crisis and personal collapse. This is Bravado Worship gone nuts, and yes the men do have it too, but apparently not to the scale that women do, because frankly, I've seen some of the nonsense stories out on this Internet time and time again and it's a far more prevalent trend in women than what even the civilian news media or even some of you knows about. Women doing dumb things to a point of crisis and then looking for sympathy from everyone else for the dumb things that got them there in the first place. It can even be said there is enough controversy in it all to throw out the question of whether or not women who are mentally ill in the first place, are just frauding their way into the system so they can find someplace to blame for their original maladjustments that they entered with. The only way this can be truly sorted out is for the military to bump up it's game and take on far more drastic and comprehensive health evaluations right at the time of recruitment, and then again BEFORE orders are cut to send them into an active combat zone. Then there has to be a plan in place to take them out of the eligibility heap and put them into stateside desk duty if the numbers come back with the wrong answers. If you read over the Whiteside story (which I have included the LINK to below this chat) the whole reason she went to Iraq to begin with was because of some vague notion she had about Bravado Worship and not for any real rational purpose. We all know that extra money and pay is part of the incentive to go into these places, or the chance to get career medals and accellerate promotions is another part. But who is going to say that out loud in a court martial or to the Washington Post who is attending the court martial ?? I cannot say that I have a spare box of kleenix for Whiteside and her pity story of crackup just because she was there. But on the legal front, I would also put the blame at the military for throwing open the floodgates and just letting any Ole Joe or Jane walk through and enter the perimeters of these unforgiving terrains, and then trying to prosecute them after they get bad outcomes from these Any Ole types. The military wants to have it both ways, first take no responsibility to do any major league psych screenings on entrants into Iraq, but then wants to hold those entrants solely responsible for their own bad life choices and prosecute their meltdowns as voluntary when it all comes undone in a not so graceful kind of way. On the flip side, there are hundreds upon thousands, perhaps even millions of us women who pass through this military system without a hitch, we get it all done, move on and pull together a life for ourselves thereafer --- and then here comes the ONE Sniffle-Butt out of a half million to fall on her face and grab all the headlines. Here lies the injustice. So which is the real story, are we pulling it off or NOT pulling it off? There are jobs which are just plain HARD all over the military and not just in Iraq --- and there are many which are even worse in the civilian sector too. But then how many of us have picked up a gun and shot ourselves in reaction to a hard job?? What happened to "hey, I resign --- I'm outta here"?? These are fair questions to know and I'm just not buying into all the crap that the news media likes to shovel out in these situations. Virtually anybody can FAKE a mental illness and just plain use it to get out of duty that a soldier doesn't want so let's get real about how the possibilities really are in military service. And why would the military even get a clue that she was a potential crack-up case when all she was doing day to day was driving a bunch of people around the compound? It's easy to see where their suspicions are. But the military cannot first cast itself as Slacker Extraordinnaire and not do any comprehensive discovery screenings prior to their deployments, and then turn around and look all Stupid in the face when they get a bad result when that same troop develops a low breaking point and loses her cookies in the middle of it all. A little caution goes a long way in military systems, and we can only stand around and wonder at what point are they all going to wake up and smell the coffee in the recruitment process? There are all kinds of mental screening tests available now to find out people BEFORE they are unleashed into riskier environments. So it is here that the blame partially sits with the military. Then on the other side, are women really NOT pulling it off at all in military service, but are they just instead, merely entering a place where they can meet and greet with their next up and coming life crisis and then have something to blame when that crisis shows itself? The Whiteside and Duckworth stories are at odds with each other in ways, and women veterans who get caught up in these stories need to understand that it's not always totally valid what you see in these stories. There are questions to sort out and reality checks to consider and we DO have to decide whether we want these fall apart stories to define our military identities in the news when they come up. THE WASHINGTON POST STORY LINK http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/20...tml?hpid=rightpromo1 UPDATE NOTE: The following text has been lifted from the Defense Authorization Act which was just passed a few days ago by the Senate invoking new changes to the predeployment exams which are to be made effective in 2008 and will likely change more in the future. [H.R. 1585] SEC. 712. REPORT ON MEDICAL PHYSICAL EXAMINATIONS OF MEMBERS OF THE ARMED FORCES BEFORE THEIR DEPLOYMENT. Not later than April 1, 2008, the Secretary of Defense shall submit to the Committees on Armed Services of the Senate and the House of Representatives a report setting forth the following: (1) The results of a study of the frequency of medical physical examinations conducted by each component of the Armed Forces (including both the regular components and the reserve components of the Armed Forces) for members of the Armed Forces within such component before their deployment. (2) A comparison of the policies of the military departments concerning medical physical examinations of members of the Armed Forces before their deployment, including an identification of instances in which a member (including a member of a reserve component) may be required to undergo multiple physical examinations, from the time of notification of an upcoming deployment through the period of preparation for deployment. (3) A model of, and a business case analysis for, each of the following: (A) A single predeployment physical examination for members of the Armed Forces before their deployment. (B) A single system for tracking electronically the results of examinations under subparagraph (A) that can be shared among the military departments and thereby eliminate redundancy of medical physical examinations for members of the Armed Forces before their deployment. This message has been edited. Last edited by: McClellanVet, Sue Frasier, VEV 1970 Army Signal Corps national activist/protester staff Blogger, VFJ |
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